Wednesday, October 12, 2016

Missing my mother...my friend...


A year ago I recited Linda Ellis's poem The Dash at my mother's funeral.  There was so much life in between her dates, and I was both honored and humbled to speak of the love that she gave to so many during that time.

Somehow though, it seems wrong to have had that final year inscribed.  Her spirit is still conspicuously alive when she helps calm my troubled soul, and her love always surrounds and comforts me when I hear her heartfelt words.

And she is so often seen through those little reminders that shine within our lives.  Her beautiful smile lives on - in the faces of her grandchildren and great-grandchildren.  And her words of wisdom flow freely from her own daughters lips. 

My pride and gratitude for my amazing mother reveals itself as I stand back and pray - that someday, I can give to those whom I love, what my mother gave to so many of us.

We have been missing this wonderful lady for some time now, as death laid its claim long after her disease stole her from us.  But her memory, and legacy, continue to live on.

Mom – I love you.
Always.
January 12, 1933 - October 12, 2015

"There is no death, daughter. People only die when we forget them", 
my mother explained shortly before she left me.  
"If you remember me, I will be with you always."

-Isabel Allende, Chilean-American author

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